The most requested resource we have been asked about for years is here! 

We are constantly asked, "What do I say when abortion comes up?" It isn't easy discussing abortion--especially in the cancel culture and bizarre new era we are living in. 

That's why Steve Karlen and I wrote a new book, What to Say When: The Complete New Guide to Discussing Abortion.

This easy-to-use hardback book builds confidence for any scenario with proven responses based on tens of thousands of conversations--from classic pro-abortion talking points to the new arguments that have emerged in our brave new world. From rape to "my body, my choice" to overpopulation hysteria to surrogate mothers to IVF and more, this book equips you to:

  • Go on offense and stay on topic when defending life
  • Balance converting hearts vs. winning arguments
  • Navigate the changing and bizarre new ways abortion is promoted

Access FREE sample chapters and then pre-order your SIGNED copy by visiting:

"What to Say When is an indispensable tool that will not only give you a better and clearer grasp of your own arguments, but also prepare you to meet and rebut every conceivable pro-abortion talking point." --Matt Walsh, The Daily Wire

"A clear, practical guide that walks readers through the current landscape and leaves them feeling confident in ending abortion.”
--Lila Rose, President and Founder of Live Action

"You’ll want to read this helpful book again and again." --Jim Daly, President of Focus on the Family

"We are indebted once again to 40 Days for Life for this new book. It gives us all practical advice on how to discuss this topic with friends, neighbors, family, and even those who disagree with us. A must read!" --Bishop Joseph L. Coffey, Archdiocese for the Military Services

"I believe this text will prove to be essential reading for all who hold life sacred and are seeking ways to speak this truth clearly and boldly. Let us heed this message and go about the business of changing the world one heart at a time."

--Bishop Joseph Strickland, Diocese of Tyler

"I have read many books about pro-life apologetics. This is the most insightful, easy to digest and entertaining book that I have encountered on the topic."

--Dr. Monique Ruberu, OBGYN, NaProTECHNOLOGY, Pro-Life Speaker

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Shawn Carney, President/CEO

In addition to co-founding 40 Days for Life, Shawn is one of the most sought-after pro-life speakers, addressing audiences coast-to-coast and internationally. He has executive produced award-winning pro-life documentaries. Shawn co-authored the #1 top-rated Christian book: 40 Days for Life: Discover What God Has Done ... Imagine What He Can Do and also wrote The Beginning of the End of Abortion.